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Re: New, have no idea how to start this....

Unread postby Electrical Guy » Wed Jan 11, 2017 11:08 am

She will be moving out in several months.
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Re: New, have no idea how to start this....

Unread postby BartSimpson » Wed Jan 11, 2017 11:18 am

A story usually has more than one sentence.
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Re: New, have no idea how to start this....

Unread postby Fatheroffour » Wed Jan 11, 2017 11:21 am

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Re: New, have no idea how to start this....

Unread postby Electrical Guy » Wed Jan 11, 2017 11:32 am

No big story, Bart. Went to college, returned home for a bit, moved in with friends sharing an apartment, that fizzled, moved back home, moving back out in a few months.
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Re: New, have no idea how to start this....

Unread postby Havalu7 » Wed Jan 11, 2017 11:49 am

The covert recorder will be humming along in your pocket warming your newly recovered stones; so if she is upset about this that and having to be a big girl and not wearing your stones or having them in her nightstand. ..so what. Perks of being a happily married wife go away whilst in the throws of divorce.

Stop worrying about what she says or do like Outis suggested and deposit your whole check in her account.

Have you read about DGAF meters yet. It comes free with the return of your stones. Turn it up full volume and stop giving a crup about what she "says" or is "going to do".

Comprende Kemosabe?

You still got this and seem like a quick study.
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Re: New, have no idea how to start this....

Unread postby Electrical Guy » Wed Jan 11, 2017 12:44 pm

Learning as I go.

Thanks gentlemen.

Throwing this out there, got home from work yesterday, she had one of my favorite meals waiting for me. I'm still alive, so no strychnine was in it. Olive branch or temp checking me?

The night before she wanted to separate.
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Re: New, have no idea how to start this....

Unread postby lionel2013 » Wed Jan 11, 2017 1:37 pm

Electrical Guy wrote:Learning as I go.

Thanks gentlemen.

Throwing this out there, got home from work yesterday, she had one of my favorite meals waiting for me. I'm still alive, so no strychnine was in it. Olive branch or temp checking me?

The night before she wanted to separate.


My X and I went on a trip to Mexico a couple of weeks before she filed. Divorce had already been discussed, massive fights, cheating (on her part) guilt trips etc., so I asked her if she still thought going on that vacation was a good idea. She said yes. We went, came back and shortly thereafter she filed anyway.

So feel free to draw your own conclusions.
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Re: New, have no idea how to start this....

Unread postby Havalu7 » Wed Jan 11, 2017 1:46 pm

Anyone remember the old board game "Stratego" and the theme song?

Chessgame brother. Move wisely grasshopper. She may be being coached.
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Re: New, have no idea how to start this....

Unread postby Electrical Guy » Wed Jan 11, 2017 2:03 pm

Being coached - very likely. She has 4 sisters (none divorced) but I'm sure they've been feeding her advice.

I'm just going to sit and wait to see what she SAYS. Meanwhile, I'm getting my stuff together financially and researching divorce laws in my state.

What's you guys take on her wanting to separate? Do I bring it up or let her discuss it?
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Re: New, have no idea how to start this....

Unread postby TXDaddy1 » Wed Jan 11, 2017 2:15 pm

Tell her if she wants separation, she is more than welcome to move out.
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