Why do you create a privacy rule with her team in it. Why don't you just unfriend them all? Seems odd that you'd want to keep those people in your life at all. Unless your trying to keep up with the EX or spread rumors in hopes that it gets back to the EX.
I found no use to FB, and as Bart has talked about many times, it's a key hole into your life that is misrepresented and misconstrued that causes more strife. In most cases it's an app that isn't true to life and/or make believe.
"Oh here is a photo of me and johnny playing at the park, and another of me and Jane baking cookies we do this every week." "My life is so awesome and wonderful"
It's not real life people. It's a brag sheet at best.
If your good friends with people you'll text or email them often.
If your keeping it in hope that someday you'll reconnect, not likely.
There are other way's to stay connected with friend and family. Remember the telephone or write a letter or email.
Let it go people.