So my STBX is basically doing whatever she wants these days. She is away most nights, and while I am spending my evenings with our child I still feel so powerless. I feel like she has all the cards, and is calling all the shots. Is there anything I can do, so I am not being walked all over. I mean until right now I just focus on him, he is all that matters to me right now, so should I just let her do whatever she wants, and continue to bury herself?