Picking up son from daycare.

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Picking up son from daycare.

Postby Ilovemyboys » Tue Jun 12, 2012 11:55 am

So I have given into social conditioning and have given my STBX more rights than she really has. She's sent my S6 to the beach (without my permission) and it's just S3 with her and at daycare during the day.

This past weekend I was denied seeing them by her.

This afternoon I am going to take off early, pick S3 up, go to the mall and buy pajamas, sippy cups and fresh milk and we're going to have an overnight with Dad. Since STBX hasn't "allowed" any overnights with me, we haven't split up clothing or toys or cups, etc.

Despite being labeled "angry" and "confrontational" this is not me at all. I am anxious and worried. I don't know what to do.

What are my risks? What do I do if she shows up at my door?

I just want to see my children.

Advice?
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Re: Picking up son from daycare.

Postby Anything4Her » Tue Jun 12, 2012 12:46 pm

Ilovemyboys wrote:What do I do if she shows up at my door?

Don't open the door. Don't let her in your residence. Be recording.

She may call the police. Be calm and non-confrontational, but politely refuse to hand the child back to her.
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