I never thought I'd be in this situation. Married 11 years (together 18 years), two young kids, both of us have good jobs, nice house, cars...now...she doesn't love me anymore.
For the last 8 years sex she's been un-interested in sex. Like all men, I assume, it means more to us? She reluctantly obliged every 2 weeks but did so angrily. Last night she told me she "can't stand to have sex with me". Wow. For the record, I'm not the get in and get out kind of guy. She is un interested in sensual foreplay as well.
I'm not fat and ugly.
This morning she appoligized for saying that, but she still feels that way.
My whole world (kids, job, wife, house, lawn, garden) is falling apart in front of me.
I feel the worst when I think about our 2 young kids. The only household they know is in critical condition...
She works way too much and I feel she derives her self worth from work rather than wife and mother.
Can counseling make her realize she may still love me? I think not, but I'm interested in what others think.
Sleepless in Seattle.