I'll say it might be more like 10% yours 10% hers 80% something in between. Even though she missed the 'deadline', most judges won't care. It is too big of an issue to allow to be defaulted if the other party responds before trial date. And I think that is the right thing to do.
Audaces fortuna iuvat.
The meaning of life is Happiness. What makes you happy? - Dalai Lama
For a more peaceful life, live the serenity prayer.