My stbx is a big b*ch. we were divorced for 12 years but have been to court 13 times (mostly filed by her first). She sent our son to a private school and the court ordered me to pay 50% school fees (over $2000/year). I was making $65k a year but had to pay $250 a week in CS, daycare and private school, plus 100% of my son's medical insurance premium, 60% of medical expenses, while she makes at least $50k and has no other children.
She had tried false DV, called police on me (and my wife) when I had < parenting time > with my son, false allegation to DYFS through my son's school counsel and social workers...
I was too busy with work and too frustrated with her BS. Just wish it would go away with time passing by.
I married my wife 4 years ago and we had 3 children in 3 years. I filed a motion a year ago and got my total obligations reduced to $150 a week, no medical insurance premium, and only 40% medical expenses.
My wife had fought with the child support enforcement and threw out a case worker that was always in favor of stbx, and filed counter complaints to the police, DYFS, and other authorities against stbx, the school counsel and social workers. Now stbx must have known who she is dealing with.