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Please delete my account

Unread postby concernedmom » Tue Jun 23, 2015 7:27 am

Please delete my account.

It doesn't appear that women are welcome here and that is fine, to each their own.

However, as a forum owner myself...I know how this works and I refuse to allow you to use my posts to aid you with google search and analytics.

Have a nice day.
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Re: Please delete my account

Unread postby Trevor » Tue Jun 23, 2015 7:31 am

No you really don't know how this works.
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Re: Please delete my account

Unread postby concernedmom » Tue Jun 23, 2015 7:36 am

I know that a site owner has the option to delete or ban my account.

It's glaringly obvious that if I stick around here it will be for nothing more than your users entertainment and a free therapy session to project their < feces > on me.

I'm sorry but I'm not up for that task.
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Re: Please delete my account

Unread postby BartSimpson » Tue Jun 23, 2015 7:38 am

Ma'am - did you ask your son to join?
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Re: Please delete my account

Unread postby concernedmom » Tue Jun 23, 2015 7:43 am

No, I didn't and I won't.

I'd rather get an attorney.

I've read the terms of this forum more than once, there isn't anywhere that specifies a third party cannot post a question.

On top of that, I've been insulted and I haven't even been here 24 hours.

I'm familiar enough with forums to tell when they are counter intuitive and toxic. I feel this has now become a complete waste of time.
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Re: Please delete my account

Unread postby BartSimpson » Tue Jun 23, 2015 7:47 am

Here's the deal, none of the legal forums accept third-party questions - you can go to FreeAdvice.com, for example, and they would tell you the same thing. This isn't a sexist issue, it is the fact that you do not have the information necessary for us to help your son, and your son needs to do the heavy lifting himself (that was the intent of the comment which you mistakenly took as insulting).

Perhaps you don't realize it, but your response is why we do not wish to help third-party's. You are all butt hurt because we will not entertain you - as volunteers - when we wish to spend our time working directly with the parties involved.

You are a legal stranger to the matter, therefore we are not talking to the person who can make the necessary changes which is frustrating for those of us who volunteer.
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Re: Please delete my account

Unread postby astrolink » Tue Jun 23, 2015 8:01 am

Your mistake is that men prefer up front, 100% honest and at times, brutal opinions. We don't use a beat around the bush or sensitive approach because most men don't respond as well. It's also important that we deal directly with the father rather than a third party.

Your son will never fare as well with just an attorney. This site is full of hundreds of men that have been in your son's shoes and through their experience a successful game plan can be made.

We can't help him if he doesn't come here. Being successful in family courts requires action, and much of it. If you would, simply give this message to him. If he won't take the action to come here, we can't help him. Let him decide whether he comes here or not.
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Re: Please delete my account

Unread postby concernedmom » Tue Jun 23, 2015 8:11 am

I was insulted at the point I was asked if I still dressed him in the morning.

I did not feel insulted when I was told you couldn't help me.

It could have been left at that, there was absolutely no reason to be offensive, as I've been extremely polite.

I wasn't looking for legal advice. I was venting and looking for direction. There is a difference.

My mistake. I will get an attorney on retainer and he can figure it out.

Seems you guys, and possibly him, don't need any help....you have it all figured out.
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Re: Please delete my account

Unread postby concernedmom » Tue Jun 23, 2015 8:15 am

I accepted the fact you can't help me and your suggestion that he come to this forum.

He is not going to come to this forum. They share all their media items and it is too risky that she catches wind that he's seeking this kind of advice by checking cache or looking at his search history.

I'm done and I thank you for your time.

Now, I'd like my account deleted.

If that can't happen, I'll just get myself banned. Like I said, I know how it works. I'll just drop some tumblr porn on the site for awhile until the moderator gets sick of me.
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Re: Please delete my account

Unread postby Trevor » Tue Jun 23, 2015 8:19 am

Couldn't is the wrong word.

If he won't choose to do his own heavy lifting, all an atty will do is relieve him of a big chunk of his income.

For someone who says she is interested in helping, that doesn't seem very helpful.
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